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Organization and Goals
Prayer plus planning equals progress. Most of us avoid
planning. We're understandably anxious to dig into those teacher's manuals,
buy that curriculum, order those books and start teaching. But before
we start to build a homeschool, it is vital that we lay a solid foundation.
Knowing why you're homeschooling is a starting point, like an artist's
rendering of the new building you want to begin. Planning gives you the
blueprints. Do we ever have to change our plans? Of course. Blueprints
are always being revised. But I wouldn't want to build (or live in) a
house without one!
Organization
Getting organized is a homeschool prerequisite. As a homeschool Mom, you'll
be overseeing several operations at once-mothering, teaching, homemaking-so
you'll need to be organized in order to think clearly. And your children
will need to learn organizational skills from you. What I'd like to do
is help you get organized to have a smoothly run homeschool.
Reasons to be organized
It is useless to set goals that cannot be met. It will be very
difficult to meet educational goals if your home is not organized, your
materials are not organized, and your thoughts are not organized.
Organized households provide time for that which is important.
If our households are organized, we will have many, many more hours of
time for more important things like homeschooling.
Disorganization spells discomfort. Have you ever gone to the front
door to meet an unannounced visitor and felt like you couldn't let them
inside? That isn't how we want our children to feel when they're home
with us for school. We want to enjoy visitors, to be able to allow people
into our homes without embarrassment.
Organization is a catalyst for peace, order, and tranquillity in our homes.
I remember a babysitter I once had for my young children. This babysitter
was my children's favorite because she was so much fun. But when I'd come
home, every game, every toy, every art supply would be out and nothing
put away after being used.
One day I came home to a totaled house - a wreck. I felt peace leave as
I walked into the room (my children were a little on the hyper side too.)
Well, we have a saying in our house that there is a home for every object
and sometimes we have to help things find their homes - so we did! Once
that was done, peace returned. There was tranquillity again. We could
enjoy life together.
A disorganized woman has low self-esteem. She can't be the person
God has called her to be, because she is so burdened.
Academic benefits. An organized student has organized thinking
and this pays off in all subject areas. Whether in math, reading comprehension,
report writing or study skills, an organized student will have organized
thinking. If your child can organize his closet, he can organize a paper.
Next time your mother-in-law calls on a school day and you and the children
are having a "tidy attack" organizing closets and she asks what you're
doing - just tell her "I'm teaching writing skills."
Taking control of household chores
What are some ways we can minimize the time needed for basics such as
housework so we'll have more time for the important things in life? Let's
take another look at how to tackle those two villains that complicate
our lives - material distractors and time distractors.
Eliminating Material Distractors
We need to take at least two weeks prior to the beginning of our school
for de-cluttering.
Think: Fewer is best. Sort your children's clothing drawers. A
child does not need to have 10 pairs of socks and 15 pairs of underwear,
or 8 pairs of jeans and 10 shirts. Select a few of the best for your needs.
Give the others away to someone who has a need. Five outfits is enough.
Half-empty drawers stay more orderly. Young children can organize clothing
if it is kept in small plastic baskets, one for each category. For example,
all socks go into one basket, underwear in another, etc. Clean closets
should be a prerequisite for starting homeschooling.
Clean and sort. Eliminate the extras. My first step in repentance
after that kitchen counter experience was to thoroughly go through each
area of the house. I had garbage bags filled with junk I didn't really
need. When you do thin, be ruthless!
Hint: Would you like more money for homeschool materials? Gather
all the things you haven't used in the last year. All the maternity clothes
from years past. All the things that you will never use or that someone
else could use if it weren't hidden in your closet. Then have a yard sale!
(When I gathered together my junk, I had everything from ancient waffle
irons to 6" ties from my husband's college days.)
No matter how much (or how little) money you make, you'll be glad you
de-junked. Your time is valuable. The more you get rid of, the less time
you have to spend maintaining what you have.
While you're at it, make the children's room work for them. For example,
use low shelves and bars for hanging clothes that they can reach. Sort
young children's folded clothing into baskets on a low shelf in a closet
rather than in cumbersome drawers. Think about how your children can be
responsible for everything that is theirs. (Part of homeschooling is teaching
responsibility, right?)
Eliminating Time Distractors
Housework can be a great time distractor. While it is not a priority to
be a fanatic about housekeeping, your home can be well maintained within
reasonable time-constraints.
(If anything, your home will begin to look better when you start homeschooling.
You will be forced to be more organized. You will be forced to start using
your children's help with the house. And you will want to finish your
housework early in the morning to be ready for homeschool.)
What are some specific things we can do to minimize time needed for
housework?
At the beginning of the day, take time to care for yourself. Be sure your
children know that once they wake up, they, too, should care for their
personal needs. The children dress, their rooms are straight, their hair
is brushed, their beds are made - all of this before they ever come to
the kitchen for breakfast. If all your children are under five, this will
take some time because they are still in training. If you have lots of
children of mixed ages, pair an older child with a younger one for the
morning routine. Young or untrained children will spend a good part of
your first homeschool year assimilating these morning habits. Work on
them and allow yourself the time in the morning to train your children.
Training is a valid part of your homeschool day and will reap you hours
later on.
For the home, plan and establish a daily routine of cleanliness. (Work
this out, in pencil of course, on a copy of the
Housekeeping Worksheet
from Appendix C.) For example, each morning have a general pick-up time
and eliminate all the excess baggage. Have daily, not just weekly, cleaning
times.
If you clean daily, you will actually save time in the long run. So, decide
how you want your house to look, how clean you want it to be and plan
to maintain it daily. Daily chores might include sweeping, cleaning the
bathroom, doing laundry, wiping countertops, preliminary dinner preparation.
Think of maintenance cleaning as a daily routine rather than waiting for
major massive cleaning days.
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Look carefully at
how you walk!
Live purposefully,
as wise people;
making the most
of the time,
buying up each
opportunity, for
the days are evil.-
Eph. 5:15-16
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